Domestic violence is a serious problem that has been occurring for centuries. It affects millions of people in the u.s. every year, most often women. Domestic violence can happen to anyone…regardless of race or ethnic background, educational level, religion, marital status, physical ability, age, or sexual orientation.

Sexual assault can happen to anyone. The attacker is the only one responsible for the crime. There is never a time when the use of alcohol or drugs is an acceptable excuse for sexual violence.
"regardless of style of dress, choice of friends, or places you choose to go, you are not responsible for sexual attacks!"

It is not your fault…

If you are being abused by your partner, you may feel confused, afraid, angry and/or trapped. All of these emotions are normal responses to abuse. You may also blame yourself for what is happening. But no matter what others say, you are never responsible for your partner's abusive actions.
"Batterers choose to be abusive; NO-one deserves to be battered!"

Developing a support network can be very helpful as you plan for safety. There are many places to turn for assistance.

Community support. Friends, family, women's community groups, churches and service providers (such as health, legal, counseling centers) can provide resources, support, and assistance.

Domestic violence and sexual assault services can provide free, confidential help to those who need assistance. Information about these services is provided on the back of this brochure.

Legal options…

Criminal charges if you or other loved ones have been physically injured, threatened, raped, harassed, or stalked, you can report these crimes to law enforcement. Criminal charges may lead to your abuser/attacker being arrested and possibly imprisoned.

Restraining/protective orders even if you do not want to press criminal charges, you can file for a civil court order that directs the abuser to stay away from you. In many states restraining/protective orders can also evict your partner from your home, grant child custody and support, or ban him/her from having weapons.

Haven offers 24-hour crisis intervention and emergency shelter for domestic violence victims and their minor children.

If you are in an abusive relationship, or are a victim of sexual assault, call…

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE
753-5800

SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE
787-1379

Haven can also provide support and resources for the domestic and sexual violence victim, through

•  Individual & group counseling
•  Assistance in filing for victim
   compensation
•  Courtroom advocacy & legal
   assistance
•  Counseling for violence exposed
   children
•  Positive parenting for parents &
   caregivers

For information about these and other services, call

Haven
Of Lake & Sumter Counties, Inc.

(352) 787-5889